Friday, February 22, 2013

Unearth Why He Lies and Cheats

Unearth Why He Lies and Cheats

If you are like nearly all women, you've probably been lied to by a man.  I can guarantee it.  Can you stop the man you love from lying and cheating?

Back in the 1960s, Bill Cosby had a comedy routine about his "Two Daughters".  He talked about what he did as a young guy with the girls.  Lying to them.  Cheating on them.  And now he had two daughters.  "The hunter has become the hunted."

The plain reality is, guys lie to women all the time . . .

Unimportant stuff...

About important things . . .

About stuff that does not seem to be important at all . . .

Women desire to know why.

Just why can't he just speak the truth?

My friend Michael Fiore (a nationally known romance professional who's helped thousands of women) says there are in fact 3 reasons that guys lie to women (and 2  of them are truly pretty simple . . . here is the first one that tends to SHOCK a number of women.)

Michael claims that men lie to women because men are SCARED of women.

If a man has ever driven you mad, kept you awake all night worrying or confused, or driven you to tears, then The Secret Survey is the step-by-step system that finally discloses the REAL truth about men…the truth that every man in your life (even men who love you) has lied to you about and tried to keep secret from you.

According to Dr. John Gottman of the University of Washington, women can both enter and get back from intense emotional states a lot faster and quicker than guys can.

It makes sense to the male mind.

We've all seen a woman burst into tears one second only to be completely fine 5 minutes later.

But when it comes to feelings, guys are more "fragile".  Gottman claims it's due to evolution.  Guys were evolved to be single taskers.  To push everything out of their brain except the one thing they are hunting.  And because of that trait, they are slower to get into an emotional state and much slower to get back out of it once they get there.

Rather than share emotions and take a hit, men will lie and avoid emotional mine fields.

From a very early age, guys discover that if they tell women the truth, women might FREAK OUT on them.  Drown them with feminine emotions .

Obviously there are more reasons that guys lie too . ..

If you wish to sincerely comprehend men, you ought to drop whatever you're doing and go watch this incredible new video Michael Fiore has recently released. -

It makes men's minds totally clear  to you.

Women are certainly not above telling "white lies" if it serves their purposes ("size doesn't matter," "we can still be friends,"), while at the same time insisting on total honesty from guys.

But what is his position?  Know what he in actuality thinks of you (and why men are so awful at showing a woman that he loves her.)

Learn why is he powerless not to stare at hot women in public, even while he is with you.

Understand why men cheat - and how to stop it.

Knowing your man's dirty mind is not rocket science.  You have the skill to give him all the sexual exhilaration to keep him addicted to you.


Men and women were asked 1 question each:

The Secret Survey Question Asked of Women:

“If you had telepathy and could read any man’s mind, what’s the one thing you would desperately want to know?”

The Secret Survey Question Directed at Men:

“What’s the one thing you desperately wish women understood about men, but could never tell her?” .

Women responded with questions like:

- Does he really love me?
- What does he think about me?
- How do I make him love me?
- Why does he get so silent?
- Why does he stare at other women?
- Why do men lie?
- Why doesn’t he talk with me?
- Is he cheating on me now?
- Will he love me forever?

Even the top alpha males - married to hot actresses, models, and socialites - are unfaithful.  Is it biology, or a character flaw?  You need to know why and work to avert it, or at the least, take corrective action before you are too emotionally involved.

And the men (over 21,000  were surveyed), notorious for closing down when it comes to revealing feelings and emotions, suddenly opened up their hearts and contributed information like:

- What men actually needed from women
- What men actually wanted in bed
- Why they stray
- Why they lie to women
- What women do that causes men pain
- How women emotionally destroy men without even comprehending it
- Why it is so difficult to stay faithful

If you have ever wanted your man to come with an instruction manual so you could figure out what was in fact going on in his heart and in his mind, this is it.

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Charles Lamm

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Sunday, February 3, 2013

Romance Impaired Special Report

the Romance Impaired Special Report

Half the populace is romance impaired.  They are referred to as men.  Here are a few suggestions and tricks to get you through those special days or to renew a romantic relationship.  Simply comprehend if you are a guy, it is your fault and your job to fix it.

10 Quick Romantic Strategies:

1. Build a love montage by gathering up some pictures of you and your lover, maybe a few ticket stubs of places you have visited and several other small odds and ends that have special meaning to you both.

2. Purchase a tree together with your partner and plant it in a personally important location. Each year on your anniversary, drink a glass of champagne next to your tree and talk how your love and tree have grown.

3. If your woman has to work later than usual, create a lunch box and fill it with her favorite things such as candies, organic tea, and cookies.  Inscribe "Open in Case of Emergency" on the top.  Send it off with her in the morning or deliver in person at the end of the day if possible.

4. Women seldom go to the spa alone.  Once or twice a year, spring for her and her BFF gal pal to get facials, massage, and nails done.  Realize that if her BFF is married, her husband will hate you for raising the standard.

5. If you are low on funds, a single long stem rose with a note can still add romance.  "Thank you for coming into my life."

6. Study your partner's preferred hobby and pinpoint a present that is really useful for her. The more focused the gift the more impact it will have. Talk to her friends and family, and use the Internet to find the info you need.

7. Jot down a note saying "I thought of you and it made me smile." Leave the note somewhere where your partner is sure to find it, or text it to her phone.

8. If you find free postcards at resorts or restaurants, write love notes on them and send them to her - home or office.

9. Talk to your partner's family and find out what her favorite book was when she was a little girl.  Buy a copy of the book and read it to her in bed.

10. If your partner has voice mail at the office or on her mobile, leave a message saying "Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you." She will welcome this anytime but in particular when she is going through a tough period.

10 suggestions are not a large amount, yet it is more than adequate to keep me busy for a couple of years.

Come on over to for the latest and greatest ways to use smartphone technology for old-fashioned romance and keep the starch in your relationship.

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Just a start, but everyone has to start somewhere.  No matter what you spend, if she senses the effort, your benefit will be 10 fold.  If a holiday or birthday is approaching, go high tech and make use of SMS to text your ex or romance back.

By Charles Lamm